2017 – Time to JUMP

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It’s a new year. A new chapter. A blank canvas waiting to be filled over the next twelve months. There is no need to dwell on anything that has happened in the years before this one. It’s time to look ahead. Time to lay down some more bricks towards building the next part of our lives.

I have spent several days and nights thinking, analyzing and trying to figure out what I want out of this year. How I’m going to go about making it happen and getting myself ready for the journey that awaits. A couple of weeks ago, I had an experience where I encountered a quote on three different occasions on the same day. It clearly demanded my attention. “Every next level of your life will demand a different you”. Powerful as that sounded and as much as it resonated with me, I was still trying to decipher what the universe was trying to tell me with this sign that followed me around all day. All I knew at the time was that it meant something to me and I would eventually figure it out.

Something else that makes it hard to clear the fog surrounding the vision of the future is all the voices and opinions all around trying to pitch in and say what is right and what isn’t. What would work and what wouldn’t. Sometimes we open ourselves up to those opinions because we hope they will somehow help us find our way and discover the best path to follow, but instead those opinions have the opposite effect. They make us question everything. They discourage us. They make us wonder if we know what we’re doing. If it’s the right thing and we get more and more entangled in the web of uncertainty and confusion.

Maybe that had something to do with how much I have needed to spend time on my own with my own thoughts. Listening to my own heart and trying to work things out by myself. And the more time I had, the more time I wanted. “Alone time is when I distance myself from the voices of the world so I can hear my own”. One of my favorite quotes by Oprah and it made its way into my thoughts and reminded me that there is nothing wrong with taking or needing this time by myself. It wasn’t simply an outright escape from “reality”. There was more to it. I needed to go into my own world where there is no noise from everything and everyone else. A chance for me to hear my own voice that was drowned out by everything else going on around me.

The pieces of the puzzle started coming together. What I want for this year more than anything else is to create a reality that I don’t want to or feel the need to escape from. We all have times we need to retreat and take a step back from our lives and “escape”. And sometimes we don’t want to come back from those spaces and places we escape to. It’s easy to spend the majority of our time on autopilot while our hearts long for a completely different energy. And that, to me, is the difference between living and merely existing… If we only wait for special occasions or isolated days and moments to truly feel alive, then we are spending the majority of our lives doing ourselves the injustice of merely existing.

So, the goal for 2017 is simple. Living a life which furthers and pursues the things that set my soul on fire. Things that make my heart happy and bring a smile to my face. Doing things that build the reality I want. One I don’t need an escape from. One that is not narrated by anything or anyone else outside of myself. Living my purpose. And getting there will take a lot of energy and come with its hurdles and challenges that will make the climb feel like an uphill battle at times, but that is not enough to stop me… Deep down we all know what we want. All we need to do is listen to ourselves. Listen to that little voice that silently, yet firmly, whispers what we want. And distancing ourselves from the voices of the world makes that little voice more audible.

After having listened to that inner voice, it may be scary… Oftentimes the answers are of a magnitude we are unsure whether or not we have the capacity to live up to… So what do we do then?…. Well… That’s when the third and final clue from the universe came through and completed the puzzle in my quest for answers…. JUMP!!!!! Yes, JUMP. One simple, yet powerful word. The first time I ever encountered this message by Steve Harvey was last year at a very critical time in my life and I “coincidentally” came across a reminder to JUMP a day or two ago. “Coincidences” are far from coincidences. I don’t believe in coincidence. Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we need a “sign” to trigger something within us to clear the fog and give us a vivid picture of the answers in search of which we spend sleepless nights and time in solitude.

Three seemingly simple and “random” quotes formed a triangle which disentangled the confusion.  Remember that first quote? “Every next level of your life will demand a different you”. I found it to mean that in this new chapter of my life, I need to trust myself more. I need to listen to myself more. And now, more than ever before, I need to mute the outside voices and be more focused and relentless in making my dreams my reality. No room for fear, pride, ego, doubt or any other deterrent. This chapter calls for a more solid version of me. One that cannot be swayed. One that does not back down. A me that does not take “no” for an answer and believes completely in my abilities and makes the most of my opportunities. One that takes charge completely… One that doesn’t hold back… Doesn’t look back…. It’s 2017 and it’s time to JUMP!!!!

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Cape Town – Beach Life

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Ever since I can remember, I have always loved the beach. It’s kind of funny seeing as I can’t swim to save my life, but that would never stop me from having all the fun in the water.

The first time I ever dipped my toes in the sand was in November 2011 at the beach in Durban. It was really awesome and liberating, but it was in May 2013 when I first traveled to Cape Town that I truly experienced the beauty of the beach, the sand and the sunset in a way unlike ever before. There is something really fascinating to me about it and it was only natural that I would want to see the sunset there again this year.

After a long, crazy year, I booked my flight and went to visit my friend in Cape Town. It was really fun being away from life as I know it and just having a different view and environment for a few days. I am beginning to enjoy travel more and more with each trip.

What makes Cape Town’s landscape so beautiful to me, among other things, is driving down the road surrounded by beautiful palm trees (which just so happen to be my favorites), how Table Mountain seems to everywhere – pretty much no matter how far you go or where you are, the different beaches that make you feel like you are in completely different places, the calmness, the breeze, the way your feet just sink in the sand, the high tides that catch you by surprise when they hit harder than expected and of course, the sunset. That, to me, is magical.

I played in the water like a carefree child, freezing as it was. Sitting on the beach watching the sun setting, seemingly falling into the ocean is something I could watch over and over again many times and I am pretty sure it would still take my breath away without fail each and every time. I love capturing such moments on camera and having those bits of those moments to carry on with me and look back on. For me, Cape Town represents a getaway and complete tranquility. Living in South Africa is a true blessing. It is without doubt one of the most beautiful countries in the world and there are so many places to visit and explore. Nature is a wonderful thing and the older I get, the more my appreciation grows.

Lunch by the beach side with cocktails and good food and company, walking barefoot in the sand on the beach, getting into the water waiting for the cold waves to hit and seeing the sun set will go down as some of the most beautiful memories I will take from 2016 going forward. I encourage anyone and everyone to visit Cape Town at least once… It’s a place and an experience like no other. Here’s to traveling more and enjoying the beauty of the simpler things in life. Take nothing for granted!

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(© Photography By: GMZee)

My New York Adventure

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Looking back on 2016, the opportunity to travel to New York was most certainly the highlight of my year… It meant more to me than any academic or professional achievement I attained this year. This revelation is somewhat surprising to people, but pushing myself academically and professionally is second nature to me. Traveling and exploring makes me feel alive in a completely different way and that’s part of the reason it meant more than most other experiences 2016 brought my way.

I still remember being so excited the night before my flight that I couldn’t sleep properly. I arrived at the airport about five hours before my flight and I wished I could just fast forward to the next day. A sixteen-hour flight later, we safely landed at JFK International Airport. I don’t think I realized it was real just yet. Throughout the drive from the airport to Manhattan, I kept looking out the window, just in awe of every little detail, from the roads to the buildings and everything else in between. I just wanted to take it all in. I didn’t want to miss a single thing. It was just one of those situations where I only cared about being in the moment. No yesterday or tomorrow mattered. It was just me living in the moment. Something I usually struggled to do but was now effortless.

The funny thing is, no matter how tired I was, I just found the energy to push and explore constantly. After dropping all luggage at the hotel and with a few hours to kill before check-in, a long walk around Manhattan followed. Watching people go about their business, everyone concentrating on their own thing and not really concerned with dozens of others sharing the sidewalk. Traffic, yellow cabs. It was all surreal to me. What is an everyday normal thing for millions of people was truly an experience for me which I treasured more than I could ever explain. It was so humid, but I really didn’t care so much about the weather. The heatwave was a small price to pay in comparison to all the experiences, big and small.

I mistook Chrysler Building for the Empire State Building probably for the first two or three days and I remember taking a walk to Chrysler Building like look!!! Empire State Building right there!!! LOL. But that’s one of those mistakes I look back on and laugh about now. Taking the subway was also an experience I thoroughly enjoyed. Being one of many commuting from one place to another, seeing random performers hustling for dollars on and off the train. It was all part of the New York vibe.

Exploring Brooklyn the first evening in New York was really special and I conquered a night on the town despite jet lag. The adrenaline and excitement made me feel superhuman.

My hotel room was on the 36th floor with a clear view of the actual Empire State Building. The view at night was one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen. I wanted to journal about my trip at the end of every day/night, yet I couldn’t really sit still and I wanted to just take photos, videos and still have enough time to live in the moment without getting carried away in capturing so much that it takes away from the actual experience of being truly present without distractions.

I remember I barely slept the first night. The next morning, I went up on the rooftop of the forty-floor Element Westin Times Square Hotel and experienced New York City from a whole different angle. I fell in love with every little detail. I was never a fan of crowded places, yet it made me feel so alive and energized and inspired by how fast-paced it was. I really got to understand what is meant by the saying “in a New York minute”.

I also had the opportunity to visit a few court houses. As a lawyer, it was really exciting just visiting and seeing the differences. I really wanted to sit in on and observe a jury trial, but that bit didn’t come together. But at least, there’s something to look forward to for next time.

I took trips to the Statue of Liberty, Grand Central Terminal, a night tour of New York, Times Square, Central Park, Queens, George Washington Square Park and many other places. Whether I was traveling by road, subway or taking lengthy walks, it was all an adventure.

In those few days, I learnt things about myself that I didn’t know before. I enjoyed the hours I had to myself all by myself exploring the new and unknown on my own. I trusted myself and my instincts more than ever before and I was not all in my head constantly. I was spontaneous, adventurous, I felt safe, didn’t worry about getting lost anywhere, I had a completely different sense of self and direction… The best way to describe it was feeling like myself, only better. All of my qualities were heightened. I felt free, fearless, at peace and washed over by clarity. I had more energy than a little kid. Sleeping at night was something I didn’t even want to do because every moment counted. Waking up in the mornings was thrilling because it meant I got to visit more places and see more.

Sometimes we have to get away from all we know and explore the world… Go to foreign places and give in to the unknown. See where it takes us. By learning more about other people and places, we learn more about ourselves… I met people and shared experiences beyond my imagination and had I not stepped outside of my comfort zone and being open to travel and adventure, I would have missed out on a great deal. It’s hard to describe it all, to capture and relive each moment… But I lived them all fully… And nothing will ever take that away from me…

We all deserve to get away once in a while. To travel and see the world. To be inspired by life outside the borders of the where we live… So get your passport… Pack a suitcase… Go on an adventure and see where it takes you!!!….

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My view of NYC from my hotel room window.

(© Photography By: GMZee)

A Letter to my younger self…

Little Girl,

There is so much I want to tell you… So much I want for you to know… As I see you sitting in the back looking out of the window, your mind taking you to far away places no one else could comprehend… 

The life ahead of you is filled with things even your own creative imagination could not envision… You will learn and experience more in the first twenty-something years of your life than many do in a lifetime… You will travel across the world and experience different people and ways of living life… And you will always adapt to your surroundings even though at times you will feel you don’t fit in…

You will always feel different. You will feel as though no matter how much you want to be understood, you aren’t… You will find your way, lose your way… Laugh… Cry… Rise… Fall… Love… Hurt… Dream… Win… Feel defeated… Life will feel like a roller coaster that keeps on going and just as you think it’s starting to make sense, something else will occur to show you that there is no method… There is no pattern… Things happen in their own way and what lies ahead can only keep you guessing….

Don’t let these things scare you… I want you to embrace your uniqueness…. Enjoy the laughter… Find strength after your tears… Look for the rainbow after the storm… See your scars as reminders of your persistence… Celebrate your achievements. When you try and don’t succeed, keep on keeping on… Keep on pushing until you get what you want. Don’t allow other people to dictate what you can or can’t do… Don’t push aside your own ideas because they don’t make sense to other people… Don’t see limitations as the end of the road… See them as challenges to overcome and learn the power you possess….

Your heart is pure and capable of unconditional love. Don’t try to hide it or pretend you don’t have it. Your mind is intelligent, witty and compelling. Don’t dumb yourself down just to make others comfortable. Your eyes see the world with an appreciation for the little details. It doesn’t make you crazy. 

Sometimes you will feel like you’re not good enough… You will feel alone in the world… With the odds stacked against you… People will come and go and when they go, you will feel unworthy and empty… How I wish I could shield you from the dark days… Hold you in my arms and tell you that it’s going to be ok… Wipe away every tear and erase every painful moment…. But I can’t… And I’m not supposed to… 

Just know this:

When you feel alone, look within and you will find me there… That voice that tells you, “Don’t give up”… That something that tells you to get up every morning and go out there and make a mark on this world… That intuition that tells you what is right and what is just not meant for you… Always trust me. I won’t let you down… I will never desert you. I will be with you through every victory, defeat and everything else in-between. I will never give up on you and you will never want for anything… Because I love you beyond measure and will always give my best to you… I will always pick you up when you fall and remind you why you started in the first place.

And if I had just two words to leave you with….

LOVE YOURSELF“… That’s what I’d say…

I’m sorry it took me this long to tell you this. But just like you, I’m human too.

Love, 

Me…

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My Year of Dreams Coming True

We are halfway through 2016 and looking back, this has got to be one of the best years of my life thus far. Focus, hard work and determination have remained constant in all my endeavours and the power of the mind and maintaining a go-getter mentality are proving to be effective.

I finished law school as one of the best in my class. I wrote my attorneys’ admission examinations and am about to get admitted after successfully completing all required examinations. My dream of visiting the United States of America is about to come true and I have overcome a whole lot of obstacles to get to where I am today.

It is important to document our journeys. In times of doubt and challenge, it always helps to look back and see how far we have come. Sometimes we exceed our own expectations and find that we were capable of a lot more than we had ever anticipated.

People will always have opinions that they will feel entitled to sharing about other people’s lives without anyone ever requesting such opinions. More often than not, those opinions have a negative undertone and tend to discourage our goals and dreams. They may label your pursuits as “unrealistic” or “taking on more than you can handle”, but I am here to remind everyone that NO ONE in this world can tell you what your limitations are, or to dictate your capacity. YOU and YOU alone have the power to decide that.

Each and every one of us has the capacity to achieve anything. We are our only limitations. We have the power to decide what our stories will be. And sometimes things will not go quite the way we want them to, but what matters more than anything else at the end of the day is knowing that we gave our best and believed in ourselves whilst in pursuit of our hearts’ desires.

In the remainder of 2016, I am going to document my achievements, experiences, travels and adventures in order to serve as my own example of living life to the fullest, without fear of failure and hopefully it will encourage others to do the same.

Watch this space. Share my journey. Making 2016 the greatest year yet – one day at a time.

10 STEPS TO MAKING THE BEST OF 2016

The much anticipated New Year has finally arrived. 2016 is here and social media is flooded with “new year, new me” statuses, New Year’s resolutions (most of which will fail within two weeks) and a whole lot of hype and excitement about the countless opportunities and potential for new beginnings on a clean slate that a new year represents for so many people around the world.

A few years ago, I stopped coming up with resolutions due to the stigma attached to them after the first couple of weeks go by and people tend to just revert to old habits year after year. I replaced annual resolutions with well-planned goals which I recorded and embarked upon achieving year after year and that proved effective…

This year I decided to compile a list of 10 steps which I feel would make 2016 a good year… Have a look and feel free to share and drop feedback, add on to the list, etc.

1. TRUST IN GOD

The fact is, different things will happen and life will not always go according to plan… We tend to want to control and plan everything but at some point or another, the unexpected will occur… That is why it’s so important to trust in God. It doesn’t matter what religion you belong to and how religious or spiritual you are… Whether or not you go to church… As a spiritual person, I am not here to preach or impose anything on anyone…

I am merely saying that ultimately, most of us believe in a higher power. A greater being  than ourselves.  Although it is not always easy to accept things we don’t understand and we tend to question why things happen particularly when life seems to be going South, at the end of it all, there has to be a reason and a purpose behind why everything turns out the way that it does. Trust that God has the best in store and just because it’s not what YOU consider to be the best for you, does not mean it’s not HIS best for you…. And He always knows BEST. Sometimes we need to go through something bad to get to something better. Remember that.

2. LOVE YOURSELF

This is something often neglected by many… We fail to acknowledge that how we feel about ourselves oftentimes manifests in how we treat those around us. It all starts within… Know your value and worth… Love and appreciate the person you are… That will ensure that the decisions you make which affect you will be good for you…

Do better. Be better. Do what makes you happy. Respect yourself. When you know what you deserve and you have the necessary peace inside you, that will govern how other people treat you… You will not allow others to undermine you, disrespect you, take you for granted or mistreat you because you will be aware of what you deserve and will not be afraid to claim it… You will also attract the right kind of people and not be afraid to let go of the wrong ones…

3. AVOID TOXIC PEOPLE AND SITUATIONS

If you want to truly have a chance at making this year a positive one and having it consist of more than failed new year’s resolutions, it’s important to identify and avoid the toxic and negative people and situations in your life. If you don’t remove them, how can you truly have a different mind-set? Avoid drama. As soon as you sense it coming – walk away!!!!

Toxic habits and people can become so familiar that sometimes it’s easy to incorporate them as permanent fixtures in our everyday lives. However, if they remain part of our lives, it is very unlikely that some of these much desired “changes” will have an opportunity to occur…

If someone was not good for you in 2015, guess what??? 2016 will be no different. People don’t change just because new calendars, diaries and resolutions are going viral worldwide… If it was toxic in 2015, remove it from your life and make room for more deserving and positive people and situations… Protect your space and circle. Not everyone deserves a seat in your life. A quote I read has stuck with me – “When someone shows you who they really are, don’t try to paint a new picture”…. If you master step 2 above, this 3rd step will come pretty naturally…

4. STAY INSPIRED

Remaining motivated and inspired means a great deal in being a happy individual and continuing on with yet another chapter in your life…

Different things inspire different people… Identify the internal and external triggers to keeping you inspired and incorporate them into your daily routine to keep you going…

Sometimes something as simple as reading a few inspirational quotes can brighten up a gloomy day… Feed your mind with inspirational reads. Write if it helps… Explore creativity… Socialize with people who bring out the best in you… Travel when you can…. The ways to stay inspired are countless…

5. SPEND YOUR TIME WISELY

Time goes by so fast, a whole year can flash before your eyes… If you fail to plan your time carefully and spend it wisely, you may find that you achieved very little or perhaps spent your time on the wrong things.

List your priorities… Schedule your time… Ensure that you structure yourself in such a way that business gets done… You have time for work but also for fun and quality time with those who matter to you most… And, of course, don’t neglect to leave some quiet time for yourself to gather your thoughts and remove yourself from all the commotion going on around you in order to recharge…

6. MAINTAIN CORE VALUES – HONESTY, HUMILITY, LOYALTY AND GRATITUDE

Maintaining honesty, humility, loyalty and gratitude as your core values will be rewarding in all the right ways… Honesty shows integrity and builds trust, which are indispensable in relationships of any kind…

Humility will keep you grounded irrespective of how much you achieve and it will leave room for more growth…

By showing loyalty you open yourself up to receiving loyalty in return… Although in reality, this may not always happen, we are responsible for ourselves… Lead by example and eventually others will follow suit.

By having gratitude within and appreciating all the ways in which you are already blessed, you will appreciate every new blessing even more… Don’t take anything for granted…

7. STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Our comfort zones are nothing more than prisons keeping us away from progress. Sometimes we have to get “uncomfortable” to blossom and become more than what we are… In order to build strength, achieve more and conquer our fears, our comfort zones must be left behind…

The only constant in life is change. And positive change lies with a positive mind and determination to step out of your comfort zone and bring your dreams to life one choice at a time….

8. BE CONSISTENT

Every accomplishment requires consistency… You want to achieve something? Work at it consistently until you do and then remain consistent in keeping it and nurturing it…

You want to create something? Be consistent!!! Everything from professional goals to personal relationships requires consistency… It’s about identifying what you want and being proactive and focused on it!!!!

9. BE A BLESSING

Random acts of kindness are not out of style… It makes little sense to strive towards maintaining a positive life and surroundings without expanding and sharing the positivity with others.

Do something unselfish for someone without expecting anything in return… Being an example can spark and inspire others too…

There are countless ways to be a blessing to others. Both big and small… You are only limited by your imagination… Put your thinking cap on and see how you can be a blessing to someone…

10. DON’T GIVE UP

Don’t ever give up on something because you think it would be too hard or that it is beyond your reach… Sometimes we run out of patience or stop and call it quits because we don’t want to fail… But you could be one hurdle away from succeeding at something… YOU are your only limit…

The above list consists of some of the first and most practical steps that came to mind…. There may be plenty of others… I hope this gave you something to think about…

Here’s to a wonderful year!!!!!

Reflection & Introspection – 2015 in Perspective

 

Years ago I developed my own individual annual “ritual” which entails spending time on my own in the last few days of the year and reflecting on the year that has been. The reason for this is to put into perspective all I have experienced, learnt and achieved. Once I have worked through that, I focus my energy on my goals for the year ahead and getting my mind right for it.

This practice is one I have maintained without fail and I have found it quite useful in my growth as a woman and young adult trying to make sense of life, my purpose and spiritual journey…

I would say 2015 had more triumphs and battles than any other year before it…. It left me numb and I am still trying to wrap my head around everything and figuring out what it means for me and how it has changed me….

My journey of obtaining my law degree and graduating in record time finally came to an end and my life was moving so fast that I didn’t even take a moment to truly take in and appreciate the accomplishment it was… I walked across the stage as they called my name with my head held high and a big smile on my face but it felt like an out-of-body experience. As though I was floating and not truly present in the moment….

I realized that I don’t take the time to acknowledge and celebrate my achievements because my mind is always set on the next thing I want to attain…. The next height I want to reach…. No time to dwell or celebrate anything because, after all, I’m “not there yet”….

So I set my sight on the next step towards building my future…. A practical legal training programme at the school for legal practice under the Law Society of South Africa… At first I was excited because it was something that I wanted for a long time and I had to work hard for it…

It wasn’t long before I became conscious of the fact that I would have to leave my life as I knew it in pursuit of completing this demanding course… I missed out on months of the lives of those closest to me… I lost a part of myself as I was constantly trying to do everything, give my all and attempt to have some sort of balance between meeting all the expectations others had of me and what I expected of myself…. Even though I was doing relatively well under the circumstances, deep down I felt as though I was falling short and nothing I did felt good enough to me… It could always be better… It could always be more… And I didn’t quite live up to my own (perhaps unrealistic) standards…

This left me feeling frustrated, lost and made me question everything… I experienced waves of different emotions which felt inconveniently timed as I felt any sort of emotion would throw me off track and I wanted to just escape it all, however there was no time for that… No time for me… I felt drained physically, emotionally and spiritually…. My ambitions and passion for a life in law were tested in ways like never before and it scared me… I didn’t want to be a failure at the one thing to which I dedicated four years of my life and then some more…

I finally have a break to breathe before I get back for the final phase and I am trying really hard to evaluate what I can do differently to make the last part something I can enjoy and remember with a smile… The answers that come to mind are that I need to have more faith in myself. I have to trust in my abilities and potential and I must stop being so hard on myself. Sometimes we need to take life one step at a time and turn to things that make us feel alive and give us a sense of purpose…

Creativity has always been my outlet and this year I was so caught up in all everyone else expected from me that I turned my back on what brought ME joy…. Music… Writing… Laughter… Time alone… Time with people I care about… Challenges which inspire growth…. Maintaining my inner peace and being true to myself… Embracing all the ways in which I am different and unique and avoiding anything that would make me feel discouraged, withdrawn or which has the potential of being destructive…

Being a perfectionist can be both a blessing and a curse because it motivates you but can also make you your own worst enemy… It keeps you chasing a certain level of greatness but if you fail to validate yourself, nothing anyone else does will ever matter. Because it is not what others think and say that keeps you encouraged… Instead it’s what you tell yourself… And that is dangerous if you fail to acknowledge, appreciate, give thanks and take time to breathe and reflect…

Why am I doing this? Why am I writing something so personal and putting it out there for anyone in the world to see?… Well, I have taken cognizance of the fact that what I have experienced is a very human thing and it is common to many… Merely in a different context to every person… And I genuinely believe at some point everyone needs to know there are others going through the same trials but it’s something we can all get through and learn from…

Looking back, I see that I need to be proud of myself and love myself for holding on and not giving up… I know one day this year will be something I will look back on and laugh about because it will not feel like such a big deal… Yet I will still take pride in knowing that it was an important building block in my life that had a purpose…

The value of time and being present in the moment resonate within me… Going forward, I choose to carefully and consciously decide what deserves my time and energy and what doesn’t…. Who matters and belongs in my life and who doesn’t… What brings me joy and makes me feel alive and what holds me back and pulls me down…

No, I don’t have all the answers… However, I have perspective and awareness… I can hold my head up high and admit to myself that my heart was always in the right place… My intentions were good throughout all I have done and I have become stronger and more enlightened… I have been bruised but not defeated and I am ready to do better and be better…

2015 was one of the best years thus far irrespective of how many hurdles I faced and I am open to the experiences 2016 has in store for me… My main focus will be ME. My dreams. My happiness… Reaching for the next level and making my mark but taking time to be thankful and to enjoy the moments which I will never relive again…

What did you learn from this year? What will you do with the lesson? How will you make 2016 a better year?… Take the TIME to reflect and introspect as that is where the answers can be found…

Cheers to an epic new year!!!!!!

Be brave. Be bold. Be fearless!!!!

 SELF REFLECTION

New Beginnings – It’s All About Perception

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Lately I’ve been observing the sunset & its astonishing beauty… Something I realized is that it never looks exactly the same as the previous day…
 Call me crazy, but it got me thinking about life & all each day represents… No two days are the same… One day is more gloomy than another… Or more colourful…. And just as we have days that feel harder & more complicated, we also have days that are bright & beautiful…
 It’s up to us to decide when we look up at the sky if we’re going to take forward the beauty & learn from the drama & baggage of ourselves (as well as others), leaving it behind us so as to enjoy a better tomorrow or if we’re just going to go through the motions of the same routine, expecting different results.
 We can all have a “better” tomorrow… A tomorrow without insecurities, fears, doubt in ourselves, our strengths & our value… A tomorrow without unnecessary troubles, things that are toxic & not good for us… A tomorrow that is one sunset away… And of course, there comes a sunrise that will be just as magnificent… And filled with prowess… A more beautiful day. Oftentimes, we’re a choice away from that day…
 I’ve made the choice to look beyond the negative things that can hold me back & instead focus on all the things that are good in my life & the countless possibilities of all the things I can achieve by focusing my mind on the things I really want in life….
 I’m doing things I never thought I would. But I’m thankful for the opportunities to grow & expand my horizons. Yes, I’m thankful & blessed. 2014’s a year for success!!!
 
(© Photography By: GMZee)
(Top: Pretoria Sunset, 9 January 2014)
(Bottom: Pretoria Sunset, 10 January 2014)